2009 Year-end Review
December 7th, 2009Since Dave’s yearly December letter is the size of a post-it note, and leaves you wondering if we ever left our computers, I’m going to leap into the breach. We did leave our computers. More than once.
Because cruising is what we do best, we did two this year, one to the eastern Caribbean and one to the west. We’ve done these before, it’s the pampering rather than the islands that beckons.
In March granddaughter Paloma’s dance team won the state finals at the Hard Rock in Orlando. (As a former cheerleader, I feel compelled to cheer her on at as many events as her family will allow me to tag along to!) And in May, oldest granddaughter Cailyn graduated from high school. Dave and I drove to Pensacola to cheer her on and make her pose for as many pictures as she could stand.
Also in the spring we converted Dave’s memoir, Reuben On Wry, to the kindle format so there are now reader choices.
My daughter and I made two trips to Carabelle on the Gulf where friends have a beach house they generously share. Carabelle is right down the road from Apalachicola - one of my favorite Florida places. It has great history, oysters and is very artsy.
In August, Dave did a brief stand-up routine at the Red Fox Lounge in Orlando for a friend. In so doing after many decades he proved that he still has what it takes to create laughter. Long before he was Rueben Kincaid he was doing standup. The family and even a few fans made the round trip from Jacksonville for the occasion. The next day we embarked on our second cruise. During this August sailing Dave came into a new camera and has been taking pictures of everything - dead or alive - ever since. An old hobby of his very much revived!
In October I made an unexpected trip to South Florida with my daughter for a relative emergency and was lucky enough to enjoy another fun lunch with my critique group. We’re all published authors - although we didn’t start that way - and have been together for more than a dozen years. Which brings me to my writing…or lack of it. I’ve been dabbling but it has lately occurred to me that I cannot work without a deadline. From my early days as a broadcast writer I always have had deadlines. So I will submit in January, just to see if I can capture a deadline situation - which means I would also have a contract. I’ve always written. I can’t imagine not writing. But…real retirement looks better and better.
In November we traveled to New York to watch Paloma dance in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade. We were super proud that she was one of twenty girls (out of 700 or so) selected to do the opening dance behind Matt and Meredith. Once home, the family gathered…including son Ted…for a late Thanksgiving Day dinner. We have so much to be thankful for.
Between trips we went to the doctors. Dave is certain he has a different doctor for every body part. And he might be right. The waiting room waiting steals an amazing amount of time. But they’re keeping us upright. Can’t complain about that!
We lost some friends this year, as all folks of our generation are sadly experiencing. A few health issues have cropped up. And sometimes memory fails — as Robert Frost once said, “I’m not confused. I’m just well mixed.”
But each day is one we can chose to be happy, or at least content. 2009 proved to be just fine. We’re looking forward to 2010 and whatever it brings…heart ache, happiness, change and surprises. Life.
The Maddens wish you a happy, safe and especially a healthy New Year!